Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Lessons from my girls

I thought I would share some of the lessons that I am learning from my beautiful daughters :-)

  • I taught the girls a little sing-song, "When I fall down, I get back up again." This is always SUNG, by the way! This is normally sung after falling down, which seems to happen a lot around here LOL. They are still so young and, as can be common with toddlers and even preschoolers, they used to get emotional pretty easily when they fell down. It seemed to be out of embarrassment many times, so I taught them this song -- I guess about 6 months ago -- and they sing it at least once a day without fail! Even when I think they should be hurt from the particular fall they took, they always pop up with a smile and sing "When I fall down, I get back up again."
What is this teaching me? The fact that they have totally embraced this song as a mantra, and the fact that I hear it on a daily basis, has me learning to apply this saying to my life as well. "Falling down" can mean so many things -- falling off the exercise bandwagon, the organization bandwagon, the spiritual bandwagon or anything else that is important to you and you set your mind to do. Most recently for me, it has definitely been the exercise bandwagon. I was obsessed this time last year and working out ALL the time. That was not a lifestyle I could maintain, and because of that I ended up stopping all together. I tried again at the beginning of the year and that lasted for a couple weeks... then I fell off again. I tried again a few months ago... then I fell off again. I have been "gearing up" to get back on the bandwagon for a month now -- gearing up yet not doing anything! This week, I am starting again. And this lovely song my girls sing to me has me realizing that it is OK. Because, "When I fall down, I get back up again." Even if I end up getting "back up" every week . . the point is, to get back up!
  • Jordan has started to say the cutest thing! Whenever she gets hurt -- whether it is from "falling down" or if her and Cali get into a sibling squabble, or whatever it may be -- she looks at us, sometimes even with tears in her eyes, smiles and says, "Accidents happen. . . But I'm STILL Happy!"

What is this teaching me? Isn't it obvious? :-) We can CHOOSE to still be happy -- still experience JOY -- even in the midst of heartache, life troubles, hurts, disappointments, etc; What a powerful message! I pray that she continues to see life this way! I do want to make sure she knows it is OK to be sad sometimes and that she doesn't always have to be so "tough," and I really think she knows that. It is just her choice to still smile. . . and I LOVE THAT!

  • Cali has also started to say the cutest thing! :-) Whenever she does something really good -- like help us when we haven't asked her to, answers a question correctly, throws a ball, whatever it may be -- she literally BEAMS and says, "I'm AWESOME!"

What is this teaching me? Again, I think it is pretty obvious! As long as this is kept in check -- which it is, because she only does it when she is expressing happiness with something she has done well, not in a "I am better than you way" -- it is such an AWESOME Mantra to have! How many of us have negative tapes in our heads, telling us: "You're not good enough," "You're not pretty enough," or "You're stupid?" I know I have many negative tapes myself and I can only imagine how different my self-concept would be and how many stupid actions I would have spared myself from (trying to gain approval from others) if I would have told myself and BELIEVED such a wonderful mental tape! Cali. . . You are AWESOME! :-)

So. . . What are your children teaching you?

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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Getting Caught Up. . .

So, some of you may be wondering what happened to my wonderful plans for getting caught up with all of my posts, huh?

Well, for once, it was not because I forgot! Blogger has not been being friendly with me. After thinking about uploading a picture for about an hour, it then gives me an error message. This has happened all weekend! Since the posts that I had left were all pretty picture intensive, I have had to put my wonderful intentions of being caught up on hold. BUT, I promise to get them all up soon!!!

Until then, have a wonderful week -- I probably won't be able to post much, as I will be attending the best homeschool conference ever, that you just happen to be able to attend in your PJs! :-)

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HOTM Conference starts TOMORROW!!

As my girls would say: "It's gonna be AWESOME!"

Did you see the post on Saturday that listed Sonlight's Sarita Holzmann and CurrClick's Leah Nieman to our speaker line-up? Is that not exciting!?! You can see the complete updated speaker list HERE.

Also, today on HOTM's site, they gave a sneak peak at the wonderful items in the goodie bag (just for attending) and door prizes! These are REALLY good! Check out the post HERE.

Finally, HERE is the updated schedule -- if you don't have your ticket yet, RUN to buy one now!! Starting tomorrow, the ticket price goes from $29.95 to $39.95, where it will remain for the duration of the conference.

Let me know if you will be attending and please, after it is all over, let me know how this conference blessed you! Have a wonderful week!

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Organizing All Of My "Stuff"

The question has been asked, "How do you organize your homeschool stuff, particularly on your computer?"

I am glad to know that I am not the only one who has folders everywhere on their desktop, and ended up downloading something multiple times because you forgot you had it originally! While I am far from an expert in organization, I thought I would let you know what I am doing to organize ALL of my homeschooling "stuff."

I have been in the process of organizing for a few weeks now and plan on having it finished before September 1st. Obviously, if it was just me at home, I would have had this done long ago, but with two preschool princesses, I have to steal moments when I can. :-)

So what kind of "stuff" am I talking about?

Computer Organization:
While my daughters are only 3 and 2, I have enough unit studies, lapbooks and curriculum downloaded to last us throughout their homeschool journey!! Ok, maybe not that much, but I easily have over 400 items just on my computer. (hmm, could that be why it runs a little slow?)

The first step for me was searching through every folder on the computer to get it all in one big folder called "Homeschool." Within that folder, I set up sub-folders for different categories. My categories include: Art and Music Appreciation, Completed Unit Studies, Religion, Science and Nature, Language Arts, Future Preschool Unit Studies, History and Geography, Math, Planning/Inspiration/Notes/Schedules, Phonics and Reading Instruction, Book Lists, Community awareness and safety, Lapbooking/Notebooking Resources and Educational Games, Handwriting, Extra Curricular, and Writing. The second step was to put all of the homeschool resources into the correct folder and category.

The third step was to open up Microsoft Access and set up a database for all of my items. My table includes the product Title, Folder it is in, Type (unit study, lapbook, resource, etc), Source (author or where it came from), Grade level, Subject 1, Subject 2, Subject 3 and Description. The very act of putting all of my resources into this database has already been a huge help -- I have realized that I downloaded multiple copies of many items! It has also reminded me what I have, items I had downloaded 1 year and a half ago that I totally forgot about (yes, when my girls were only 1 and 2 I was downloading things they would use when they are in 6th grade, HA! But when those freebies come up at places like Hands of a Child or CurrClick, I jump on it!). I am currently about half way done putting all of the information in and will then move onto the next step.

Once everything is put into the database table, my wonderful computer-savvy husband tells me I will be able to create forms that will allow me to search the table and produce reports. This is different then an excel spreadsheet which limits me to only sorting and filtering.

For Internet favorite links, I have done something similar in that I have created folders for different subjects and categories and put the items into that folder. The key for me will be going into this every couple of months and deleting those links that I thought were so cool at the time and really aren't.

Purchased "Hard Copy" curriculum and resources:
I have been blessed to find great deals on various products. On top of several books and products that were either mine or my brother's (thanks, Mom!), I have purchased: Bright Beginnings (preschool program), KONOS Volume 1 (for $10, thank you very much!), Five in a Row products (technically I have only purchased the Before manual and am borrowing the others from my dear friend Marsha, but they are still here currently), Phonics Pathways (another $10 purchase), The Story of the World I (yet another $10 purchase) and a few other things I can't even remember (see why I need an organizational system?!?)

My plan with these sources is to make a list of all of the unit studies and topics covered in all of these sources. I will then put all of the different units and topics into the database that I created for my Computer organization. For the folder, I will put the manual or resource it is in.

Books, Books and More Books:
Again, I was blessed to have my mom save every book I ever read as a child! On top of that, I have been unable to help myself from spending all of my "blow money" on books when I see a great used curriculum sale. We love great picture books and I have been enjoying reading the books recommended for the second - fourth graders myself, HA!

With all of these books, and having them stored in 3 different rooms on 25 different shelves, we need organization here as well. I recently opened up a Library Thing account and am beginning the slow process of putting them all into the system. What I absolutely love is the tags! I had tried to do my own database for this, but this is just so easy :-) I can add as many tags as I want, so I am focusing on putting keywords that make it easy to find for the lessons. I am adding in grade level and the different topics it could cover (including time period, character issues, main character if it is a true or based on a true story, any additional topics that are brought up in the story, etc).

Educational Programs and Movies:
We are all very visual learners. Any time we can watch something on a topic, it either brings the unit to a new level of understanding or creates an interest that will develop into a new unit! We love the ability to look up a topic with our TIVO and find tons of great programs on the unit we are planning. We also love History in general and have recently found the Cable in the Classroom resource, which is just awesome! So, since I have become a History buff since starting this journey and so I can get these resources while they are available for free by recording vs. having to purchase later, I am recording tons of educational programming. Recently, on July 4th, we recorded 14 hours of The Revolution Miniseries! Luckily, my wonderful mother lives next door and has a DVD Burner so we are able to save a lot of these programs onto a small, easy to store disc!

My current plan with this is to get a list of all of my movies and recorded programs, and come up with as many keywords as possible. For example, would this be great to view when studying Horses? American History? European History? Westward Expansion? Five Senses? The list can go on and on. Then I will take this list and input the information into my Library Thing account. I know this is more for books, but I prefer to not have to go to three different places to search for materials if I can avoid it. For the most part, I am pretty sure I will have to input these manually vs. using the handy search function but I would have to do that if I was using a database or spreadsheet anyway.

After I finish all of this, I might move into the various educational games I have. . . we will see how my nerves are at that point!!

So, what about you? What do you do to organize all of your homeschool "stuff?" I would LOVE to hear any ideas or suggestions you have!!

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Thursday, July 24, 2008

Our week with the Kangaroo

*** My apologies for the lack of pictures in this post. Apparently it is not meant to be! At the original time of posting there were many Blogger issues. A month later as I am adding this update, I just sat for over an hour adding them again and it still isn't working. The pictures just showed them having a lot of fun and hopping around in aprons like Kangaroos :-) ***

Last week we had a fun and casual week learning about Kangaroos and Australia. We are really doing things lightly this summer, not really adding in a lot of extra pre-planned lessons to the unit or lapbooks, but simply reading great books, having fun acting them out and watching videos that bring the subject to life and going with the girls' delight. I have also been allowing myself some time during the day to get caught up on other personal things and household cleaning, and giving them a lot of extra free time to play and use their imaginations. I am so excited and impressed with how much their creativity has grown over the past few weeks! The elaborate stories they come up with (that all seem to involve different parts of the stories we have been reading), how well they are playing together and the imaginary worlds they create for themselves -- it is just so much fun to listen to and witness!

For the actual unit, however, this week we read Does a Kangaroo have a Mother, too?, Katy No Pocket, What shall we do, Blue Kangaroo?, and The Little Einsteins' Australian Adventure. We also looked through a few non-fiction books on Australia, koala bears, and kangaroos and found the continent on the globe. For supplemental videos we watched a few cartoons that came on with Kangaroos (it has been awhile and I can't remember them all but they were found with our lovely TIVO keyword finder -- I love that tool!), and some old videos my mom had saved of the Disney show Dumbo's Circus and the Winnie the Pooh show that had the people in costumes --do you remember that?!? Anyway, on Dumbo's Circus, there is a Koala character who talked about his love for eucalyptus leaves and Winnie the Pooh, of course, has Kanga and Roo! Yes, this was just a fun excuse to break out these old tapes, but the girls loved them!

Finally, we ended the week wearing our own aprons like Katy does in Katy No Pocket. For those of you unfamiliar with the story, it is about a mother kangaroo who doesn't have a pocket to carry her baby in and she is very upset. She goes to several animals to learn how they carry their babies around and the wise owl (there is also an Owl character in Winnie the Pooh, lol) tells them to go to the city to buy a pocket. When they arrive, they meet a very kind man who was wearing an apron FULL of pockets for all of his tools. He generously gives her his apron and Katy is overjoyed to finally be able to carry her child, as well as a few other animal babies, in the pockets! So, the girls got to choose an apron from our drawer and then we chose an animal for each of them to be their baby . . . we do not have any toy kangaroos, so we went with a dinosaur and a beanie baby creature (we think it is a dog?). The girls hopped all over the messy playroom to see if their babies would stay in their pockets. It was very cute!

So there you have it. . . a simple and fun week that exposed them more to Australia and the various animals that live there. We would have read Wombat Stew as well, but we had just read it for fun a few weeks back, so we just talked about it again for this unit.

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Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Family Relationships and Rainbows

I love when units just come together all on their own! Originally, this unit was going to be on two Frances books: Bedtime for Frances and Sister for Frances.

The day before I hopped on my library's website to reserve these books, I was doing a rough sketch of our educational future Pre-K - 12th, just to see if I could get an idea of how I want things to look. . . not totally detailed plans or anything, just a game plan of sorts. The more I read and learn, the more I have realized that I don't think I will be following a boxed curriculum. There are several companies that I absolutely love and will use their resources as supplements, and will always consider moving to one of their "box sets" if needed, but I just don't think that is the path I am being led down. So, for my own sanity purposes, I wanted to see what was in this head of mine, if I could come up with what I would want them to cover if it was totally up to me. I plan on using this rough sketch as an outline, pulling in tons of great living books and really relying on the methods in The Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach and Real Learning.

Anyway, I was doing this rough sketch and started looking at the book list that Elizabeth Foss provided in the back of Real Learning. I hadn't heard of many of these books before, so I did a quick Amazon search on the books listed for the K-2nd grade years. I ended up finding some awesome books by Molly Bang and Charlotte Zolotow that I just had to dive into right away! Many talked about sibling relationships (went with our Sister for Frances theme) as well as enjoying being little (Jordan was on a kick where she was trying to act like an adult and I thought this would be a great way to show her the joys of childhood), relationships with parents and more! These books were all at my library so before I knew it, we had ourselves a brand new unit!

I pulled books we owned as well and some fun videos we have (like the best siblings in the world Charlie and Lola, as well as Big Sister Dora and others). The girls LOVED this unit and these books! Our absolute favorites were: When Sophie Gets Angry-- Really, Really Angry by Molly Bang (we still have this book because it is such a hit!), If It Weren't For YOU by Charlotte Zolotow, I Like To Be Little by Zolotow, and The Runaway Bunny by Margaret Wise Brown. As you can see, there were TONS of books for this unit :-)

At the same time I was requesting all of these books from the library, I was also trying to request Rainbow of my Own for another week unit that I had planned. Unfortunately, our library did not carry this title, BUT it did have several other books on rainbows and colors that looked fun! So I went ahead and requested those, planning on having this be a separate unit. When I got all of the books home, however, the girls looked really interested in the rainbow titles and I decided to do a separate science unit at the same time as our other units. All of these books are being kept in a basket in the living room and we are talking about these casually over several weeks. It is going great!

In our Science Basket on Rainbows and Colors, we have Meet Rainbow Sherbet -- this is a Strawberry Shortcake book and the girls are just loving her right now lol, Run to the Rainbow -- this is an easy reader type book, not great in my opinion but the girls like it, Planting a Rainbow -- this is also a great book to use for a gardening unit, Maisy's Rainbow Dream -- has to be Cali's favorite book right now by far, and Rainbow Brite And The Big Color Mix-Up -- this was MY book when I was little and Jordan loves this! For videos we have watched my old episodes of Rainbow Brite (thanks, mom!) and My Little Ponies (this happened to be right after Rainbow Brite and it has a rainbow necklace in it so since the girls like it, we are going with it!). There is also the Magic School Bus episode Makes a Rainbow.

For fun, we watched Peter Pan because the girls had never seen it before. . . it was so fun to see that not only did it happen to include the topic of not wanting to grow up (enjoying being children) but it also has a rainbow by the mermaid lagoon that both girls picked up on so quickly!

We ended the week with a family trip with MamaRosie and Crawdaddy (that would be my parents) to San Antonio. A very successful week!

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Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Jammin' with the girls

I have been feeling so tired lately, like zero energy. . . I fake it the best I can with the girls, but maybe due to the heat or lack of sleep (ok, yes, I know that is most likely the reason), I have just been BLAH!

This weekend my wonderful husband made me a mixed CD as a fun surprise. It has a bunch of my favorite songs from the past that are all upbeat and really fun! Since the girls were born, if I do get to listen to music that is non-Disney or Noggin related, it is mostly either Christian Contemporary or Country. A lot of the music on the popular channels are just completely ridiculous and disgusting, so I gave up on it once the girls were born (right around the time I heard other friend's children singing lyrics that were SHOCKING!) But, in some ways, I threw the baby out with the bath water, as there are so many songs that just completely lift my spirits and energize me. This CD has many of those songs.

I got to listen to a few of them this weekend, but it wasn't until today that I got to hear the whole thing. The girls and I were cleaning this morning and I decided to put on the CD. Almost instantly, my mood changed. Shortly, the girls and I were dancing around, lip-singing the songs, acting them out, and laughing like crazy. When Opposites Attract came on, I taught them a dance I learned at recess in 4th grade that I realize now is completely silly, but I thought was really cool back then! We did the Roger Rabbit and the Running Man, ran around the house and played follow the leader dance-style, had lunch while "chair dancing" and singing to our food.... you know, the usual complete goober stuff!

For those of you who are interested, here is the playlist on the CD that my awesome husband made me this weekend.... Thank you, baby, for getting me out of the "blah's" and for bringing A LOT of laughter to our day today!

  1. Amy Grant - Baby Baby
  2. Amy Grant - The Lucky One
  3. Jessica Simpson - With You (This is the song I picked for a recent retreat we went on that reminded me of my husband... it is embarrassing to say, but Jessica's "blondeness" is soo like me! This song just speaks so well to how my husband makes me feel)
  4. Christina Aguilara - Come on Over (remix)
  5. Christina Aguilara - Beautiful (not upbeat persay but one of our favorites)
  6. Janet Jackson - Rhythm Nation
  7. Janet Jackson - Black Cat
  8. Janet Jackson - All for You
  9. Salt N Peppa featuring En Vogue - Whatta Man (ok, yes this one has some questionable lyrics but (1) by today's standards it is nothing and (2) we were dancing around so much and laughing that I don't think the girls heard a single word lol)
  10. Destiny's Child - Independent Women
  11. Destiny's Child - Jumpin', Jumpin'
  12. Destiny's Child - Survivor
  13. Jennifer Lopez - I'm Real
  14. Jennfier Lopez - Jenny from the Block
  15. Jennifer Lopez - Waiting for Tonight (dance remix)
  16. Pink - There You Go
  17. Paula Abdul - Forever Your Girl
  18. Paula Abdul - Opposites Attract
  19. Dee Lite - Groove is in the Heart
  20. Eddie and the Cruisers - On the Dark Side (I LOVE love love this movie and the sequel... I know, I am a dork! And, yes, I know Eddie is not really the one singing, I have the soundtrack, but it is who I picture)

So, when you are dealing with the "blahs" what music do you jam to? And, what dances from the past have you taught your children that made them look at you like you were completely NUTS?

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Monday, July 21, 2008

Going to the Beach

This week the girls are so excited -- we are learning about the beach! Except for the cheap sand bags I purchase from Wal-mart, they have yet to see real sand or a beach, and that is exactly what we are learning about ... and then going to on Sunday!!

This is what the girls woke up to this morning! Originally, I had planned this unit because we were going to be reading Night of the Moonjellies and The Raft. . . Well, our library doesn't carry those books, so I decided to just wing it :-) As you can see, we got a TON of books, and this will be a really fun week!

Our books include: The Seashore Book by Charlotte Zolotow (one of my new favorite authors!!), At the Beach by Anne and Harlow Rockwell, Beach Day by Karen Roosa, A Day at the Beach by Ed Briant, Curious George Goes to the Beach, To The Beach! by Linda Ashman, Beach Day! by Patricia Lakin, Ocean Wonders (this isn't really a "book" but a really fun slide book full of colorful pictures), Beach by Elisha Cooper... and what study of the ocean and beaches would be complete without The Little Mermaid and Finding Nemo! :-)

My favorite part of this unit, I must confess, is the video of the Sneetches!! I loved this growing up and was so excited to see it come up under a library search for "beach." It has a few other stories on the tape as well, including Green Eggs and Ham!

We will be using seashells for counting, adding and subtracting, playing with a fun underwater puzzle complete with a magnetic fishing pole, digging in our backyard with sand shovels, role playing life guards and safety in the water, swimming and ending it all with a family trip to the beach on Sunday!

What are you learning this week?

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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Enjoying the Journey

If you have been following this series, you know we have previously discussed things that keep us from experiencing joy in our role as homeschoolers, and more importantly, mothers. I pray that by seeing yourself in some of the examples, you realized you were not alone in the battle against our Enemy, who would love nothing more than to keep all of us in an un-joyful place. Having seen our own struggles mirrored in another’s life, we get a sense of peace and are able to move on. Today we will be discussing ways we can take time in our day to make sure we are enjoying our family, and special traditions and rituals we can incorporate to truly build family unity!

I must confess that this was my favorite part of the survey I conducted. I started compiling answers over three months ago, and the responses were so awesome that I immediately started implementing many of them! Granted, many of them are things that I was already striving to do, but seeing how others made it a daily priority encouraged me to do the same, and my family has been blessed as a result. There were also several moms who confessed in embarrassment that they realized they hadn’t established ANY rituals or traditions unique to their family. . . if this is you, please do not sit there in guilt or shame! Take some of the ideas I will list here and use them as a springboard for creating your own special family moments. It is never too late to start and today is a perfect opportunity!

The way that I have always made sure I was enjoying my family was to stop and ask myself if I had REALLY hugged them, laughed with them, or been silly with them yet that day. Did I abandon all motives and intentions at least once and just sit down with them and sing songs, hug, and join in their play and silliness. Since I am a natural goober, this should come pretty naturally and often it does – but it is just as likely, if I am not careful, to get bogged down in my “to do” list for the day and let these moments pass me by. It seems that I am not alone. Taking time to be intentional about silliness, singing, laughing, and tickling were listed by almost everyone who replied! It just warms my heart to not only know that I have so many kindred spirits out there, but to think of all the joyful homeschool children we are raising, children who are confident and grounded in their parent’s love! This journey truly is a blessing!

Those were things that I have always done, but the ideas gleamed from your responses are what has truly made the difference in our home. . . .

To read more, and find out what suggestions have made the biggest impact on our homeschool and family, visit me at The Heart of the Matter

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Monday, July 14, 2008

Hello There!

Summer time. . . you have to love this time of year when nature calls you to relax, have fun, curl up with a good book, and watch God's beautiful creation! As I am sure you noticed, it has been awhile since my last blog update and my lovely friend Candace was kind enough to prompt me to post an update :-)

What have we been doing lately? Reading, learning, cuddling, watching movies, eating popcorn, exploring, observing, and reading some more! I have been busy working on things for Heart of the Matter and getting things ready for the new Preschool Co-op I will be leading this fall as well. I have been reading personally as well and taking notes and planning for the future (aren't I always lol) with the wonderful new units and lapbooks posted at Homeschool Share. Have you been there since the Blast contest ended? They have added over 200 items, and TOTALLY redone the site so it is easier to find things! I contributed 5 units myself which can be found there or linked in my sidebar on the right.

I will post pictures soon, along with a list of books and activities we have done since my last update, but a quick recap -- there was a fun week with Butterflies and Caterpillars and last week was a HUGE unit on families and relationships. That was a great unit because it wasn't a planned one really -- I took a couple books that were on my monthly plan and added a few more and it ended up being a great unit! We also tried something different last week and had a Science unit as well. . . I like this idea. This was separate from our main unit, that also includes science topics. It was a basket of books in the living room focusing on one topic -- in this case Rainbows and Colors -- and we would read these books throughout the week casually. We also watched some videos that tied in and were happily surprised at the resources that ended up combining the two units -- Rainbows and Relationships -- without even trying!

Sunday we had a really fun road trip to San Antonio! The six of us, the four of us and my parents, loaded up in the van and drove three hours to see the Alamo and Riverwalk for three hours and then turn around and drive another three. . . We packed lunches and drinks so the only cost was gas, but that was a pretty penny LOL. It was a really fun day, even with the 100 degree Texan heat, and we are looking forward to more day trips around this lovely state of ours in the future. I have some WONDERFUL pictures from the trip that I will be posting soon, along with a much better recap.

This week Gregg is traveling for a few days and I have much to do! I need to write my blog article for HOTM, write the blog posts for here on our recaps on our units and trip, continue loading my hundreds of books into my new Library Thing account, try to list some books on Paperback Swap, clean and organize, catch up on some reading, AND have fun with our NEW UNIT on Australia and Kangaroos!

I hope you are all having a wonderful week and summer with your families! I will be back this week. . . I promise! :-)


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