Showing posts with label Heart of the Matter Online. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Heart of the Matter Online. Show all posts

Sunday, November 9, 2008

I am the Featured Homeschooler this week!

Good Morning :-)

I must tell you that I intended to start back blogging slowly, however my computer has been unwilling to turn on for the past few weeks! The only time I have to be online lately has been when Gregg is home from work at night with his work laptop, but it is important to me to reserve a lot of that time for family. . . and watching our newest passion: The Tudors, Season 1!

I did want to direct you to the interview I did with Heart of the Matter about our homeschool. We are the featured homeschool of the week!

I hope to have our computer fixed soon. . . it has been an interesting challenge to have our online resources so limited, but it has also helped me to keep my priorities in line. We have been having such a blast the past few months! LOTS of crafts (we are ALL finally at the age where we enjoy them lol), reading great books, nature walks, tea parties and science experiments inspired by the new PBS show Sid the Science Kid. I can't wait to share with all of you the MANY pictures we have taken!

Have a wonderful Sunday with your family. . . for us, we will be going to an Indian Pow-Wow in town and getting a wonderful introduction to our Indian unit next week!

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Monday, September 22, 2008

Ok, let's try that again

Dare I say that I am back? :-)


I was already behind in posting things on this blog and all the events of the past month certainly haven't helped things! I will be posting throughout the coming weeks on the following:


  • Our Hurricane Experience -- We lost power the Friday it hit and got it back Tuesday afternoon. Since then it has been interesting trying to get back into a groove. While I will go into a lot more detail on that post, I will tell you really quickly that both my home and my parent's home (they live behind us) were spared any damage! Besides a few minor scares and inconveniences, it was actually a pretty great experience for us personally in that it provided LOTS of family time full of talking, reading, and memory making. We watched minimal television (we did have a generator and watched some things, like Saints football of course), and taught our girls (and myself) how to wash clothes with a washboard and hang a clothes line!

  • Our Camping Pictures, lapbook and recap -- Yes, I know dear family members/readers, that you are chomping at the bit to see ME camping, much less the girls delight in the whole experience, and it is coming I promise!
  • Horse Week pictures -- We had so much fun with this unit! It lasted two weeks technically, but with Gustav hitting in the middle and having my brother and his adorable girlfriend here for one of those weeks, we still kept it pretty simple and fun. We have a lapbook, fun pictures of all the books we devoured and of course, our pictures of our family trip to the Race Track to see the horses up close!

  • Trip to San Antonio -- Wow, that trip was awhile ago, huh? But it was fun, educational and definitely one I want to document. We visited the Alamo (which has a really cute treasure hunt for the kids to make it fun) and the Riverwalk.

  • Butterflies -- Just because I am so upset with myself for not posting the pictures of that unit since it was one of the girls favorites, I will post the pictures from this unit that we did I think back in June?? Wow, talk about BEHIND!
  • Olympics/China -- I have pictures of our Lapbooks and of course, our Harris Family Olympics! There are SO many pictures though, that I want to use one of those cool slideshow thingys but every time I try to upload pictures into it at photobucket, it doesn't work. Any experts out there willing to help a sister out, please let me know!
  • Children's Museum -- Ok, this trip was back in May!!! But again it was a fun family event that needs to be documented!
  • Anything else that comes up between now and then!

But for now, I am off to clean up a bit and then have fun with my girls :-) I will leave you with these pictures of the breakfast Jordan made for us last week! The day before, she had woken up REALLY REALLY early and had decided to feed herself Tootsie Rolls for breakfast (we have a Tupperware container in the pantry with a few treats leftover from potty training). That day, I put some pop tarts, cereal and raisins in Tupperware in an easy to reach cabinet for her to have easy access to in case she ever did it again. . . well the very next morning, she woke up like at 5am or some ridiculously early hour.

I heard her in the hall bathroom (which is right by our bedroom), telling herself that she had an idea -- Pop tarts and Raisins! I got up a little while later, unable to sleep, and was greeted by a wonderful surprise! She had placed 4 paper plates on the table, with a pop tart next to each plate, sprinkled with a few raisins and the grand finale, a solitary Marshmallow on each plate (left over from our camping trip)! She yelled "Surprise!" and was just so happy with herself! It looks like my 3 year old is a budding cheff-er (her words) after all :-)

Have a wonderful day and I will be back soon with my mountain of updates and posts!

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Friday, August 15, 2008

Favorite Books and Curriculum - HOTM Meme!

Welcome to the Heart of the Matter Online meme. Every Friday we will feature a different topic for our meme. Mr. Linky is set up below so please share with us your Favorite Curriculum or Books! With the new school year beginning it would be wonderful to hear why your curriculum works for you, new ideas you're looking forward to trying, or really great book ideas you would love to share.



I have had a lot of fun reading everyone's posts for this Meme. We are in our second year of homeschooling preschool so while we haven't tried a ton of products, I have looked into several and we know what we like/works for us :-)

My favorite would have to be Five in a Row! What a wonderful curriculum! We don't follow it exactly as planned but use their reading lists and pick and choose from their MANY lesson options. We supplement with items and units found at Homeschool Share, and I also write a lot of our lessons myself. We love themed Unit Studies (which is totally stating the obvious for any of you who have visited more than once, ha!)

I also LOVE The Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach by Robin Sampson. I love this approach and will be implementing SO much of it in our schooling. I love her 4 steps and all of her ideas for doing this delight directed approach. This totally fits in line with our family's vision for homeschooling.

While I can go on and on about my favorite books that I have read regarding homeschooling, the other book that is a "can't miss" would be Real Learning by Elizabeth Foss. A very practical, modern approach to Charlotte Mason. While it is written for Catholic homeschoolers, I have found that all of the ideas in her book are applicable to any denomination and is just a breath of fresh air for creating a beautiful and unified family.

For more great reviews and favorites, you have to check out HOTM's Meme!

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Thursday, August 14, 2008

Striking a Balance

Balancing my many roles of Wife, Mom, Teacher, Maid, Cook, Friend, Daughter, Sister and Writer is something that I struggle with daily. From the emails I receive, I know that I am not the only one with this dilemma. It seems to be one of the things all women have in common – the quest to find balance in life and hush the never ending to-do list in our minds. As homeschooling moms, on top of all the other balancing acts we are performing, we also have to find a way to balance the busyness of the day and all the items on that to-do list with the fun moments that truly make the entire journey worthwhile.

As we bring this series on experiencing joy to a close, I only thought it appropriate to address ways that we can practically participate in those family traditions and rituals while still fulfilling the other roles our families need us to perform. The first step I took to strike this balance was something I learned on a retreat I attended late last year. My sweet friend Chelsea told me that she was completely exhausted just thinking about my day and all the things that I tried to accomplish . . . and the guilt that I carried around from not crossing all those items off of my list. She helped me to see that to have peace and joy in my life, what I needed to do was become intentional and plan. I needed to figure out what REALLY needed to be done around the house, the activities I needed to be a part of (if any), and how many from-scratch gourmet meals I needed to fix each week to feel good about myself. Most importantly, I needed to get my husband’s input. Then I just do what is on his list! It is wonderful if you can be Mommy Mrs. Perfect, but for the rest of us, the important thing is that your family knows how much they are loved. Wendy told me something that has stayed with me, “One thing’s for sure, my dear children do not worry about cleaning, mopping, laundry, dishes, etc; But they will say, ‘Mom, you didn’t sit with me and talk’ or ‘Mom, you don’t play with me.’"

Secondly, I put all but one of my yahoo groups on “no mail.” Those groups can be invaluable in the wisdom you can receive, but that wisdom is also provided by searching the archives. Chances are that they have discussed every topic you can think of at least twice anyway! Stopping all those emails from coming into my inbox every morning immediately lightened my load and helped calm me down.

Now, I’ve only been a Mommy for 3 ½ years so I thought it best to get insight on this balance thing from some much more seasoned veterans. An overriding tip was . . .

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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Getting Caught Up. . .

So, some of you may be wondering what happened to my wonderful plans for getting caught up with all of my posts, huh?

Well, for once, it was not because I forgot! Blogger has not been being friendly with me. After thinking about uploading a picture for about an hour, it then gives me an error message. This has happened all weekend! Since the posts that I had left were all pretty picture intensive, I have had to put my wonderful intentions of being caught up on hold. BUT, I promise to get them all up soon!!!

Until then, have a wonderful week -- I probably won't be able to post much, as I will be attending the best homeschool conference ever, that you just happen to be able to attend in your PJs! :-)

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HOTM Conference starts TOMORROW!!

As my girls would say: "It's gonna be AWESOME!"

Did you see the post on Saturday that listed Sonlight's Sarita Holzmann and CurrClick's Leah Nieman to our speaker line-up? Is that not exciting!?! You can see the complete updated speaker list HERE.

Also, today on HOTM's site, they gave a sneak peak at the wonderful items in the goodie bag (just for attending) and door prizes! These are REALLY good! Check out the post HERE.

Finally, HERE is the updated schedule -- if you don't have your ticket yet, RUN to buy one now!! Starting tomorrow, the ticket price goes from $29.95 to $39.95, where it will remain for the duration of the conference.

Let me know if you will be attending and please, after it is all over, let me know how this conference blessed you! Have a wonderful week!

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Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Enjoying the Journey

If you have been following this series, you know we have previously discussed things that keep us from experiencing joy in our role as homeschoolers, and more importantly, mothers. I pray that by seeing yourself in some of the examples, you realized you were not alone in the battle against our Enemy, who would love nothing more than to keep all of us in an un-joyful place. Having seen our own struggles mirrored in another’s life, we get a sense of peace and are able to move on. Today we will be discussing ways we can take time in our day to make sure we are enjoying our family, and special traditions and rituals we can incorporate to truly build family unity!

I must confess that this was my favorite part of the survey I conducted. I started compiling answers over three months ago, and the responses were so awesome that I immediately started implementing many of them! Granted, many of them are things that I was already striving to do, but seeing how others made it a daily priority encouraged me to do the same, and my family has been blessed as a result. There were also several moms who confessed in embarrassment that they realized they hadn’t established ANY rituals or traditions unique to their family. . . if this is you, please do not sit there in guilt or shame! Take some of the ideas I will list here and use them as a springboard for creating your own special family moments. It is never too late to start and today is a perfect opportunity!

The way that I have always made sure I was enjoying my family was to stop and ask myself if I had REALLY hugged them, laughed with them, or been silly with them yet that day. Did I abandon all motives and intentions at least once and just sit down with them and sing songs, hug, and join in their play and silliness. Since I am a natural goober, this should come pretty naturally and often it does – but it is just as likely, if I am not careful, to get bogged down in my “to do” list for the day and let these moments pass me by. It seems that I am not alone. Taking time to be intentional about silliness, singing, laughing, and tickling were listed by almost everyone who replied! It just warms my heart to not only know that I have so many kindred spirits out there, but to think of all the joyful homeschool children we are raising, children who are confident and grounded in their parent’s love! This journey truly is a blessing!

Those were things that I have always done, but the ideas gleamed from your responses are what has truly made the difference in our home. . . .

To read more, and find out what suggestions have made the biggest impact on our homeschool and family, visit me at The Heart of the Matter

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Monday, June 9, 2008

The Men have taken over Heart of the Matter!

The men have hijacked Heart of the Matter :-) In honor of Father's Day this weekend, the women have been given a week off (hmm, that sounds a bit odd lol) and we will be blessed with tons of articles from terrific homeschooling dads! Some are very well known, some are published authors and company owners, and others (like my amazing husband) are Heart of the Matter husbands!!

Every day there will be a giveaway as well, so you don't want to miss reading this week! It will truly give you a glimpse into the HEART of our wonderful husbands and fathers, and give us a chance to win some really cool additional Father's Day gifts (you know, in addition to the adorable handmade arts and crafts!)

Today, Chuck Black (owner of Perfect Praise Publishing and author of the Kingdom series) has given us a real treat with a wonderful look at A Father's Manner of Love. We also have a really fun contest to win a COMPLETE SET of the Kingdom Series!

I will continue to keep you posted on the fun happening over there. And don't forget to read this month's edition of Heart of the Matter Magazine, hot off the press!

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Sunday, June 8, 2008

June Edition of HOTM is up!!!

Be sure to check out this month's edition of Heart of the Matter! I have two contributions this month. . . an original article for this edition Planning our Preschool and they also included my post from last week Do You Know My Friend Worry? :-)

Gregg will also have an article up on the Heart of the Matter blog soon. . . and it is REALLY good! I will let you know when it is up!





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Thursday, June 5, 2008

HOTM Review: The Barefoot Book of Ballet Stories

Can I just tell you how excited I was to review The Barefoot Book of Ballet Stories? As mom to two preschool princesses/future ballerinas, this book was a perfect fit for us! What I love the MOST is that it truly can grow with your child. Confidently, I can share with you my opinion for the preschool set, as this is my experience, but I cannot imagine any girl who would not fall in love with this book!


My daughters, at the ages of two and three, immediately fell in love with the beautiful artwork. So did I! The cover greets you with a lovely ballerina surrounded by delicate pink roses, posing in front of a castle that is the picture of every fairy tale you have ever read. The pages inside are full of both half-page and full-page photos that are simply breathtaking in detail, color, movement and design. We also loved the lyrical tone of the stories themselves, written by Jane Yolen and Heidi E. Y. Stemple. They serve as perfect read aloud choices for this age group and above.


The ballets highlighted in this anthology are: Tchaikovsky’s The Sleeping Beauty; Delibes’ Coppelia; Tchaikovsky’s Swan Lake and The Nutcracker; Prokofiev’s Cinderella; Pickard’s Shim Chung; and Ravel’s Daphnis and Chloe. By compiling all of these stories into one collection, not only does your child get exposure to some of the most famous ballets in history, but it also provides plenty of fodder for some sneak attack educational opportunities!

As the book jacket promises. . .



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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Stumbling Blocks to Joy


We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them.
- Kahlil Gibran


Experiencing JOY everyday. . . Is it really possible? Life is full of unexpected events, distractions, bad moods and illnesses. Can you honestly be joyous in the midst of these events, when things don’t go the way you think they should?


The truth is that God’s grace is new each morning, and joy is ours for the taking, but so often we choose to focus on the negative. What takes away your joy and peace? In my research of this topic, I was blessed to hear from so many moms and the feedback has been amazing! While the fun ideas on how to enjoy your family have abounded, what I found to be the most interesting was the comments concerning what stole your family’s joy. They really boiled down to 8 main themes, the first three of which we will discuss today: Comparison, Busyness, Health, Media, Scheduling, Worry, Interruptions, and Housework. Do you see yourself in this list?

The habit of comparison is an old friend of mine. I believe it’s a trait all women are born with, and regardless if you are a single woman, working mom or homeschooling mom, we all battle some form of this habit daily. From your comments, it appears that comparison shows no favorites – every aspect of life is up for scrutiny and evaluated against our perception of someone else. Whether it is that they have . . .



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Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Review: Preschool Activities in a Bag AND Giveaway!

Preschoolers. . . Gotta love their energy! The world is an adventure and they are total sponges, absorbing everything that is around them. While this boundless exuberance can be a joy to behold and witness, at times it can also be a tad annoying. If you have ever been in a waiting room, a doctor’s office, in church or on an airplane with a preschooler, you have felt my pain. Or maybe you are a veteran homeschooling mom, attempting to teach multiple levels of older students with your preschooler demanding to be a part of it all, but really just driving everyone nuts. In situations like these, what’s a poor parent to do? Enter Preschool Activities In a Bag! (insert deep super hero announcer voice here)


Preschool Activities In a Bag, Book 1 is a compilation of over 30 different activities and games that are perfect for children under the age of six – but don’t be surprised if your older students ask to get in on the fun, too! Paula Reetz and Sherri MacLean designed each bag to contain self-guided activities that your children can do by themselves with minimal parental interaction. There are 11 main skill sets that are learned and enhanced with the activities: 123 Order, ABC Order, Color, Consumable, Motor Skills, Hand/Eye Coordination, Matching, Observation, Patterning, Puzzle and Sorting. One of the things that I love about this book is all of the helpful charts and descriptions that allow you to see at a glance what activities touch on what skill sets. If your child is having difficulty with motor skills, for example, you can quickly scan the chart and see there are 19 activities that focus on this skill. If your child is struggling with hand/eye coordination, you can tell which of the activities (there are 8 of them) would be good for your student to work on to develop this skill. Thus, the bags are not only fun for your children, and a much needed diversion, but they are very educational!


Another one of the reasons why I am now singing the praises of this book, and its authors, is. . .


To read the rest of this review AND have a chance to enter the Activity Bag Giveaway, please visit The Heart of the Matter Online.



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Wednesday, April 16, 2008

HUGE - Mother's Day Giveaway 2008!



What a HUGE contest we have going on at Heart of the Matter Online!! I can't list all of the prizes here because there are WAY too many, but here is the information on the contest itself (please visit Heart of the Matter to check out all the prizes!):


Mother's Day is fast approaching and we wanted to take this opportunity to bless one really special mom this year. In order to do that, we've teamed up with some fabulous companies who had that same desire. The package that has been put together will give mom everything she needs for the up and coming school year PLUS MORE!


Now, we fully believe that every mom deserves this package but since we can only give it to one mom here is what needs to be done....

Nominate the mom you believe deserves it the most. Is she a single mom? a military mom? a widow? a mom of a child with special needs? has she overcome certain obstacles? Let us know her story. Why does she deserve this package? What would it do for her family? Let us know and she could be the recipient of this amazing package and the person who nominates her will also receive a gift! Your nominations must be electronically mailed to: homeschoolinghearts@gmail.com with "Nomination for Mother's Day" in the subject line.

You have from now until May 7th at midnight to submit your nomination. Our staff and writers will then collectively consider, pray, and talk it over to see who will receive it. The decisions will be posted on Mother's Day, Sunday, May 11, 2008.

We will also post a "Tribute" of sorts to all the moms who were nominated. Simply sharing encouraging bits that will honor them as well. You may nominate more than one person but they must be in separate emails.

All nominations will be considered and prizes cannot be exchanged. Please place the button on your blog to spread the word. Let's bless some Mom's this year!

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Sunday, April 13, 2008

Experiencing Joy in the Ministry of Motherhood. . .

"This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote
itself to making you happy." - George Bernard Shaw

Do you view your role as a Mother to be a “mighty one?” I do. I believe with all my heart that Motherhood is a Ministry, and that we have been called and equipped by God to raise up the next generation. I must admit, I didn’t always feel this way.

About a year and a half ago, I was really struggling with what I felt was a calling to homeschool my two beautiful girls. I knew that I loved being a mother, and that the more I thought about homeschooling, the more I fell in love with the idea, but I wondered if it was enough. I had just gotten done reading The Purpose Driven Life and I was trying to find what it was that I was uniquely shaped to do. In my mind, I somehow assumed the only way I could truly be used by God was within the church, so I looked into Youth Ministry. I found some great programs and it all sounded wonderful, but it truly was not where my heart was . . . My heart was with my family and with homeschooling.

I continued this internal struggle until last April when I attended a Walk to Emmaus retreat with my church. I didn’t know what to expect from the retreat, but I went into the weekend prayerfully, asking God to clearly show me what He wanted for my life. Why do I continue to be surprised when He answers above and beyond my expectations?!? Our God is so good! Imagine my shock when . . .

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Friday, March 28, 2008

Heart of the Matter Article - Getting it from the Head to the Heart

Almost every homeschool blogger I know has one. You know, the posts about “A Real Day.” Apparently we all feel led at one point or another to make sure other moms know that life isn’t perfect, school doesn’t always get done, the laundry is usually piled on the sofa, and we occasionally sleep a little late. But then it is back to regular programming, that post gets buried with all the others, and moms are left reading about joyful, peaceful homeschool days reminiscent of The Walton’s.

While we all know we shouldn’t compare ourselves and our homeschools to others, getting that head knowledge into our hearts can be the hard part. We end up always wondering if we are doing it right, if there is a better curriculum out there, if so-and-so’s children are better behaved or are reading better. The constant comparison, wondering, worrying and guilt we carry around with us can prevent us from experiencing the true JOY of this journey.

“We are all unique and bring something different to the homeschool table” . . . blah blah blah. It sounds great, but unless we truly believe it, it’s just a bunch of pretty words. I have written about this several times and have told it to myself even more, but really believing it is hard for me. Most recently I have been struggling with a daily schedule. Trying to find enough hours in the day to exercise and read devotionals, spend quality time with the girls learning and reading books, having the house not look like a tornado hit it for once, attempting to look somewhat decent when my husband comes home, and trying to get enough sleep so that I can wake up and do it all again has been very difficult. It seems as though I have two stages – the first is where everything is going like clockwork and getting done but I am constantly exhausted and feeling like I am playing beat the clock, or the second stage where none of it gets done, and I gain 15 pounds!

This second stage is where I have been stuck for the last six months. Even while finding my own groove in how we school, I have been trapped feeling like I had to have the schedule of everyone else. I constantly beat myself up for not being able to get as much done each day as the others I read about. I would make a new schedule every week, trying different variations of the same thing – wake up early (way before everyone else in the house), exercise, start the dishes and laundry, fix my husband’s lunch, have my quiet time, fix a wonderful wholesome breakfast for the family, start school by 9:00am, make lunch, clean the house and have dinner ready when my husband comes home. This might be what your schedule looks like, and it might work for you, but this has not worked for me. For whatever reason, I am wired differently I guess.

But a new hope has been birthed in me, thanks to a post on the Five in a Row Message Boards!! When I shared about my struggles, someone mentioned that in her home, the morning was when the children had free play and she did housework, emails and blogging (I will add exercise here as well). After lunch is when they did school for 2-3 hours and then it was time for errands, more free play with the kids, dinner and bed. A REVELATION!!

  • I can start school AFTER lunch?!?
  • I can do what seems to come naturally to me -- catch up on computer time while waking up, use the burst of energy I get after to do what I dislike the most (cleaning the house) and save the highlight of my day (school time with the girls) for later?
  • We can start school after lunch and when we are done, already have the house clean, exercise done and have the rest of the day for real free play?
  • Can I really break the classic rule of school first in the morning?
  • Is there really such a rule after all???
I have no idea if this new schedule will work for us or not, or if this will help anyone else out there, but I wanted to share one more myth that I have dispelled for myself. I hope this gives you the freedom to break some of the rules you have created in your own minds and propels you to a schedule that can truly bring JOY to your day and family!!!

If you have advice or insights you would like to share with us on how you schedule your day or if you have any other homeschool myths you’d like to dispel, please post your thoughts in the comment section! We’d love to hear from you!!
The Heart of the Matter is giving away a copy of the life-changing book See, I Told Me So.
This compilation of 18 heart-warming stories answers the cry of anxious
homeschoolers everywhere. Homeschool veterans from many walks of life share from
their experiences: their challenges, their fears, their trials and triumphs.
Each contributor, be it the graduated son or the mother who homeschooled him,
offers the same assurance: "We could have stopped worrying years ago and you can
stop worrying today."
To enter this giveaway, simply go to my article at HOTM's site, and leave a comment there (but please leave one here, too!)







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Thursday, March 13, 2008

Heart of the Matter Article - Easter Unit Study for Littles

(I must give credit where credit is due -- the BEAUTIFUL girls in the picture below are not mine :-) They are Candace's beautiful girls! She was kind to let me use pictures from when they "rowed" this book last year for their Easter study! Thanks Candace!)

I LOVE Unit Studies! Discovering literature based unit studies has made all the difference in our homeschool . . . in my belief that I can “do” this homeschooling thing, in the fun and memories I am creating with my girls, and in being able to learn right alongside them!

We began our unit study journey with Before Five in a Row, and over the last year have added in an amazing resource, Homeschool Share! As their website states, HSS is an “on-line cooperative effort of several homeschooling moms to provide free but quality literature-based unit studies and resources.”

You may be saying to yourself, “That’s great, Rachel, but why are you telling us all of this?” Well, it is because Easter is approaching, and it is through this site that I found a unit study that I am SO excited about that I just had to share it with all of you!! It is based on The Parable of the Lily by Liz Curtis Higgs, and was written by Candace Crabtree. It is listed under the Level A Unit studies, which means it should be perfect for ages 2-6!

If you have not read this book before, I URGE you to go out and get this book to share with your children! It is one of those books that you can get out every year and your children will just learn more and more about the true love and meaning behind the Easter story. Liz uses scripture verses throughout the book, pulling from both the Old and New Testament, to really paint the picture and point towards the Cross. The Bible verses alone in this story make it an excellent choice for inclusion in your Easter studies, but adding in the rest of the Biblical application lessons listed will really bless your socks off!

Both Candace and Ami Brainerd, the genius behind HSS, have consented to allow us to post some of the lessons from this unit for you to use, and to get a glimpse of what you can find (FOR FREE!) at the site! This story has so many “bunny trails” you can go on and the lessons included at the site include dealing with your emotions, learning about farming, flowers (in particular the lily and its many varieties), seeds and planting. The lessons cover all the major subjects including Social Studies, Language Arts, Math, Science and Art/Music, as well as some “Just for Fun” activities and of course, Biblical Application. This is the area I will focus on for our glimpse into this wonderful unit!

Bible Verses in Story
There are so many wonderful Scriptures that are throughout this book to help tell the story. Perhaps choose one to really focus on with your child this week. For handwriting, you can practice writing the verse. And, this could be your verse to memorize as well!

James 1:17 – “Every perfect gift is from God.”
Matthew 24:44 – “So you also must be ready. The Son of Man will come at a time you don’t expect Him.” Isaiah 53:2d – “There was nothing in his appearance to make us desire him.”
Isaiah 53:2a, b – “HE grew up like a small plant before the Lord. He was like a root growing in a dry land.”
John 3:16 – “For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son.”
Isaiah 53:2c – “He had no special beauty or form to make us notice him.”
1 Corinthians 4:5 – “Wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light things that are now hidden in darkness.”
Isaiah 61:11 -- "In the same way the Lord God will make grow what is right.”
John 12:24 – “I tell you the truth, a seed must fall to the ground and die. Then it makes many seeds.”
Isaiah 53:3 – “He was hated and rejected by people. People would not even look at him.”
Luke 24:1 – “Very early on the first day of the week, the women came.”
2 Corinthians 9:15 – “Thanks be to God for his gift that is too wonderful to explain.”
Matthew 6:29 – “But I tell you that even Solomon with his riches was not dressed as beautifully as one of these flowers.”
Matthew 28:8 – “They were afraid, but they were also very happy. They ran to tell…what had happened.” Isaiah 33:17 – “Your eyes will see the king in his beauty.”
Isaiah 53:4 - “But he took our suffering on him and felt our pain for us.”
1 John 4:9 – “This is how God showed his love to us: He sent his only Son into the world to give us life through him.”

Forgiveness
At the end of the story Maggie asks her father for forgiveness. Why does she do this? Can you recall a time you’ve had to ask for forgiveness? What about our heavenly Father…when should we go to Him and say we are sorry? Maggie’s father says that forgiveness is what Easter is all about…discuss this with your child.

Word Study: Lily
Look up verses in the Bible that have the word “lily” in it. Discuss these verses. 1. Luke 12:27 – “Consider how the lilies grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field…how much more will he clothe you?” (oh how our wonderful Father in heaven provides for us!) 2. Song of Solomon 2:1 – “I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys.” (the lily is used to describe something or someone beautiful!)

Parable of the SowerRead the Parable of the Sower in Matthew 13 and discuss with your child.

I hope you enjoyed this brief look into The Parable of the Lily, and even if you decide not to do this unit, I hope this gives you some ideas and inspiration to find a story that will fit your needs and homeschool! If you are looking for further ideas, HSS also has The Legend of the Easter Egg by Lori Walburg listed under Level B (ages 4-8) Unit Studies!

May your family be blessed this Easter season and be filled with His love, grace and forgiveness, for as the farmer in the story says, it truly “is what Easter is all about!”

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Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Crawling into His Lap

(Sorry for posting this a bit late.... first day of having DH home for a few days in-between jobs! We had a blast, I will post later..)


The essence of peace. Complete security and comfort. Rest. These are words that describe my memory of lying across my father’s lap as a child, rocking softly in his blue Lazy-Boy recliner while he lightly rubbed my back. That was my cherished spot because in those moments, I knew I was cherished.


I was at a spiritual retreat in December, and toward the end of the weekend, we were led in making a covenant with our Lord for the upcoming year. We were asked several questions, the most important being, “How would you describe what you would like your relationship with God to look like?” As I was waiting for my turn, I reflected back on the things I had learned during the retreat. One of the recurring themes was that our relationship with our earthly father, and how we view him, is often intimately tied to and resemble how we view our Heavenly Father. Unfortunately, for most attendees, this was a negative relationship, so the focus of that statement was normally tied to overcoming the past, and letting go of the harbored anger and anguish. But that was not my experience.

Growing up, my father always worked so hard to be able to provide a comfortable home for our family. As hard as he worked, he put even more effort into creating quality family experiences with me, my mother and brother. Playing putt-putt in freezing temperatures (completely alone, I might add, since no one else was crazy enough to be outside in that weather), playing board games, having crawfish boils and barbeques, and dancing around our kitchen table on Christmas morning. We went on tons of family vacations, and for each of them, the fun shared during the long drive in the confines of the mini-van was better than arriving at the destination! But for me, none of those experiences compared to the memory of lying in my daddy’s lap, feeling completely secure and loved.

When it was my turn to create my covenant, and to say how I wanted my relationship with my Heavenly Father to look like this year, I chose to honor the earthly father that He blessed me with. I realized that God knew me before I was born, someone who has always accepted His unconditional love for others but have struggled with believing in it for myself, and knew that I would need that example in my life to really start to grasp and understand His personal, intimate love for ME! That reality is so amazing, so precious, that it is still difficult to believe at times, and hard to put into words, yet I tried. The statement that I created, my covenant for this year (and beyond) is that I will “Crawl into my Heavenly Father’s lap and LET Him love on me daily.” Don’t we all need to do that???

As a home schooling mom, it is tempting to think it is my job to lead my two little princesses to God. After all, I am the one that is with them all day, everyday, teaching them His word, singing songs about His love and faithfulness, reading bible stories and acting them out. All these things are great – and necessary! – but the reality is that their relationship with their daddy will have the most impact on their Christian walk. I have realized that in everything I do, in everything I say, I need to remember that fact and honor my husband. I need to continue to build him up in their presence, make sure that they know how much he does for us and how much he desperately loves them. I need to create opportunities to allow him to share in our learning experiences and adventures, and not feel left out when they have special ‘Daddy dates.’ I need to respect the relationship they share and do all that I can to help cultivate our own special family memories that they can later look back on and reflect onto their ultimate relationship, the one with their Heavenly Father.

Father, God, I thank you for loving me before I was born and giving me such a beautiful example of that love. I realize today, God, that many may be reading this who do not share those wonderful memories of their earthly fathers, and I pray a special blessing upon them. Let them experience Your presence today in an intimate way and bring healing to their hurting hearts. And, Lord, I pray that you give all of the parents reading this wisdom in how to help lead the little ones you have entrusted to our care back to You. That they see Your love for them shining through all of our words and actions. Help us to all learn how to set time aside to just crawl into Your lap and allow You to love on us daily. It is in Your Son’s precious name I pray, Amen.


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Wednesday, February 20, 2008

HOTM Meme: Favorite Homeschool Product

The Heart of the Matter's Meme for the week is What is your Favorite Homeschool Product. To be honest, I almost didn't participate this week because I don't really use a lot of "products" at this stage. But we are learning everyday, and are "homeschooling," so I guess I will talk about what has been my favorite FINDS since starting this journey.

Right now, I would have to say that HomeschoolShare is definitely my favorite FIND that I am currently using. It is a literature based unit study curriculum that is FREE and online. Once you figure out how to find all the goodies on this site (it has so much information, way more than just unit studies!) I DARE you to look up a topic that you want to study and not find a book, unit or lap book done for you to use!! I have been posting about it a lot lately, I know, but hey, they asked! :-) I will spare all of you loyal readers from hearing me ramble on about it for the fourth time this week, but for all first time visitors, please see my post Cinderella, Cinderella to hear about the fun we had this week, thanks to HomeschoolShare!!!

My favorite FIND that I just read and can't wait to start implementing it The Heart of Wisdom Teaching Approach! This book is AMAZING!! It is a lesson in biblical history in the beginning -- I learned so much about the bible and my faith it is incredible -- and the second part is about the teaching approach. It really and truly is an approach. While she has unit studies to purchase, she lays everything out for you, holding your hand through making your own unit studies. And not just in a way that makes you feel "Yeah I can do this." No, she gets you EXCITED about doing it on your own! I just finished it and am unable to put into words exactly what this book has meant to me, but I recommend everyone to go out and read it..... It will bless your socks off!!

My favorite FIND that I can't wait to use (we will begin in the fall) is Bright Beginnings Preschool program! (There has been some confusion.. this is NOT the Letter of the Week program, although that is cool, too. This is a textbook program!) My lovely DH gave it to me for Christmas, and I am really looking forward to using it next year. It is a complete program... the only thing to add would be reading instruction if you are ready for that (we are and will be using Reading Made Easy). This is a wonderful Christian based program! I just took it out again to start planning for next year, and got excited all over again! I cannot do it justice, so please see this detailed review at Rainbow Resource.


So, what is your favorite homeschool product??

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Thursday, February 14, 2008

Where do I homeschool...


The Heart of the Matter's Meme of the week is "Where do you homeschool?" That is perfect because I have been needing to post pictures of our new "Learning Room" that I discussed in my "Change, Change, Change" post.
So first I will talk about where we homeschool. Before the move into the bigger loft area, we rarely "did school" in the playroom. We would go up there for short periods for learning, and I would let them do a lot of free play up there, but it felt too cramped for me. Most of our learning was done at the kitchen table or snuggled on the sofa.

For the past two weeks, however, the majority of our time has been spent in what I affectionately call "The Learning Room." It has our desktop in there (so fingers pointing all over the screen won't drive me completely nuts, like it does on the laptops!) so we have been doing a lot of online games at pbskids and playhouse disney. It has a mounted tv where we watch out Veggie Tales (see my lovely post, Out of the Mouth of Babes, ha!), educational videos that go along with our units, and our awesome Leap Frog videos (I now have 4!). It has SOME of their books (we have a HUGE library of books spread throughout the entire house), tons of dress up clothes and other pretend play toys, a large collection of musical toys (most of which is hidden in the basket shown below), FOUR different kinds of block sets, math toys, phonics toys, handwriting/drawing toys, balls, bean bags, Mr. Potato heads, coloring books, puzzles, etc, etc, etc; And... my favorite part.... a very very comfortable overstuffed chair and ottoman that I got at a garage sale for $5, WOO HOO!

So, without further adieu, here are pictures from our lovely Learning Room.....

**Please note, I am horrible at hanging pictures --- really really bad at it --- so there is NOTHING on the walls because I am waiting for my wonderful DH to do it. He is almost done with his MBA and with traveling for work, so the walls should be full of our fun learning things in the coming weeks.**











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Tuesday, February 12, 2008

Out of the Mouth of Babes

Children are amazing, aren't they? In one word or sentence, they have the ability to make you absolutely melt with their sweetness, scare the wits out of you, delight you to no end, or embarrass the day lights out of you. They also have the ability to keep you humble!


I must admit that I was feeling pretty good about myself last week. We have been hitting a stride with our homeschool, figuring out what works for us and the things we enjoy, while abandoning the things that seem wonderful but just don't “fit” us. And, we’ve been having a lot of fun.
We had just finished up a two week unit on rabbits where we read Guess How Much I Love You, Little Rabbit Foo Foo, Runaway Bunny, Velveteen Rabbit, and, our favorite, The Tale of Peter Rabbit. We actually started with our friend Peter and regardless of how much my girls enjoyed the other stories, they kept asking for him again. We read the books, watched the animated stories on United Streaming and the ones we checked out from the library. We played the online games at PeterRabbit.com. We had fun having lunch in our "rabbit hole" under the kitchen table and pretending to be Mr. McGregor.

On top of all of that, they were showing off their growing phonics skills every day, pointing out letters around the house and telling me the sounds. They were figuring out how to spell words by sounding them out and singing all of the fun songs from the Leap Frog videos. Yes, I admit it, I was feeling pretty good about myself!

Then, Jordan came up to me on Friday evening and asked to put on Veggie Tales, which again made me feel pretty good knowing that she could have asked for all of the other silly shows we have. I put on Esther, which is my favorite of all of them, and we snuggled together on our big stuffed chair to watch the show. We were having a wonderful time, until Jordan told me something that erased all prior feelings of being confident in my mommy and teacher skills. It was right after the part when Haman was yelling at Mordechai about how he needed to show him respect, when Jordan turned to me and said, "Look, Mama, he's yelling at him!! He's yelling at him . . . just like you yell!"

Frozen, in shock, I turned to her and asked quietly, "Does Mommy yell?"

Sweet and innocent eyes look at me and said quite simply, "Uh huh."

Still in shock, I ask, "Does it hurt your feelings when Mommy yells?"
Again, those sweet big blue eyes turn to look at me and say, "Uh huh."
And just like that, I was completely humbled and realized that I still had A LOT of work to do. I know that my girls know that I love them, and I know that we have so much fun together and laugh more hours of the day than anything else, but I also know that they are three and two and that life isn't perfect. As much as I would love to always put my Love and Logic training into practice, when the two year old is pulling her older sister's hair, or the three year old is sweetly testing her limits for the hundredth time that day, I just don't always pick the best option in dealing with it.

Yes, our homeschool has come a very long way in the past year as Mommy has experimented with different styles, curriculum, methods and schedules. We are finding out what works for us, and letting go of the need to copy the seemingly perfect homeschool down the road. We are having fun, we’re learning and we’re reading wonderful children's classic literature. But we have most definitely not arrived, and my sweet daughter innocently pointed out an area that I have been neglecting while pursuing the others. At the end of the day, will they remember the snuggly reading times, the fun activities, and the stories, or will they remember Crazy Mama yelling her head off? I certainly don't think I fit that description, but you get the point.

So, since we seem to be hitting a stride in our school, it is time to turn our attention to discipline and controlling reactions to the inevitable limit testing that comes with toddlers and preschoolers. If you have any suggestions on how you handle those situations, or if anyone else cares to admit that they occasionally take the lesser road and yell (thus making me not quite feel like the worst mother in the world), please leave a comment. As for me, I'm off to eat some humble pie and love on my girls!
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